Live or survive

Live or survive

The year 2013 may be the best time to start a project and close chapters, doors, windows, circles. CLOSE AND CONCLUDE in short, with everything that does not allow us to live with joy, intensity, and enthusiasm. It is ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL, to force us to end any ungrateful or painful stage of our life in which we are immersed, and we will not be able to finish. Your relationship failed ?, You must leave the country ?, You must vacate your home?

The family unit broke down? A disease limited your life? Lost, abandoned ?. Although we dedicate all our time to ask ourselves the reasons and try to find explanations for what happened, we will only get frustrated until exhaustion. Our mental health depends exclusively on CLOSING chapters with moments of our life and walking. We cannot live in the present, longing for past times.

What happened has already happened and we must get rid of it. We cannot be eternally children or mature adolescents, nor can we be united to those who do not want to join us, nor can we work with entrepreneurs who do not count on our worth. Things happen and we have to let them go. That is why it is sometimes very enriching to make changes at home, to break papers, to throw away the accumulated and unusable, to destroy uncomfortable memories, to give away, to sell ... in short, to get rid of the harmful and to seek an interior goal of overcoming to LIVE instead of SURVIVING. In life, you have to win and lose, and one of the cards to win is always the same: live only what is part of our present. No one will give you back the past. The brain damage that produces accumulate in our lives resentment chapters, will only damage our body even more with poison and bitterness.

Do you need to have an open door, just in case ...? For what? Are there chances of recovering a relationship that failed? Do you need clarification of discussions? Words that were not said? Friendships that don't end? Open doors that you can close.

DO IT NOW, face it. Convince yourself that you will not allow yourself to fail. Do it without pride, without rancor, just because YOU can decide that you no longer fit in that place, with that person, in that situation, in that heart, in that office, in that landscape. You are not the same person for two days, two months or a year ago.

Everything remains to close. It is called mental love for oneself. Get rid of what is no longer in your life. Nothing and nobody is indispensable (people, places, work). We were born without an essential label, and it is a deep job, to learn to live without that adhesive from which it is obligatory to get rid of. We only have customs, needs, links. Many terms could cleanse our minds and our body. But next year 2013, I would choose: CLOSURE, CLOSE, CONCLUDE, OXYGEN, CLEAN, UNDERSTAND, ELIMINATE, SHAKE. Whichever one you choose that serves to LIVE YOUR LIFE and not to SURVIVE HER.