Why do we seduce and attract strangers?

Why do we seduce and attract strangers?

A brief history of the attraction between the mermaid and the man:

Men always fall in love with mermaids. Mythological beings, which cannot exist. She did not accept, not for an answer. The siren existed, and it swam against the current of logic. The sirens intoxicated the poor men and drowned them, that way they fed their narcissism, without limit. But she swam against the current, and fell in love with him. Everyone fell in love with her, but she alone with him. What did he have? She wondered, and found no answer. I just sighed. And he then saw her, she swam against the current. It was love at first sight, those loves that the troubadours remember. They kissed, again and again. With each kiss they forgot their differences, they no longer existed. And now they both swam against the current. Many sirens speak of her, the one who forgot who she was, to be someone different. Men remember that diver, who decided to dive after his love. But that doesn't matter anymore, together they swim against the current.

Many times, we have to swim against the current in order to be happy, but why do strange people seduce us so much?

In the field of psychology, the mechanism of ATTRACTION is not as simple as it seems: A set of circumstances must all coincide, shaking and awakening our senses one hundred percent.

The attraction has to arise in the Optimum Moment: to be predisposed to fall in love (since this does not always happen).

The Environment: it is common to fall in love with the people nearby and who live around us.

The Mystery: curiously, it is shown that we are much more attracted to people we do not know in its entirety.

Personality: in this section cultural, intellectual, and personal factors are mixed, which make our attraction vary or reaffirm many times.

The Physicist: Although the surveys tell us otherwise, in psychology it is recognized that it is a determining factor. Since love usually enters directly through the eyes and not through the brain.

Why do we seduce and attract strangers?

Mysterious people are attractive and interesting because we associate that mystery with novelty, which activates dopamine in our brain (which is a neurotransmitter of love). Interestingly, we observe a contradiction with attraction, because we are also attracted to people similar to us: with similar qualities, common hobbies, age, temperament, etc. since similar genetic patterns attract.

When we are attracted to someone strange, most of the attraction that is generated is due to the Passion, while with the people in our environment and those who agree more with us, we find more intimacy and security.

We are attracted and we like our partner to be well proportioned. The shapes of symmetrical faces are more attractive to us. The female physical proportion has a relationship between waist-hip (statistically the waist must be 70% of the hip).

The attraction in men occurs much faster than in women since they give more importance to the physical factor. The women have a great memorization activity, remember the details of what they have shared with a person, their gestures, their personality. It is as if preparing a “report” of each person, that is why women are so detailed and for the attention to small details is so important.